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The #1 Most Terrifying Dating Question + Your Perfect Response (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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►► Discover the Secrets of How to Talk to Men. Download Your FREE Chapter Now → http://www.howtogettheguy.com/free-chapter/ ▼ Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new dating advice for women every Sunday. ▼ Picture this scenario. You’ve been dating a new guy for a month. You bring him to a friend’s birthday, when all of a sudden you bump into a guy you used to hook up with. Cue awkward conversation. When he leaves, your man turns to you and asks, “Who was that?” Eeek. Do you give him the 100% honest answer? Or the 50% sort-of-honest answer? It’s a tricky situation, and one that causes way too many unnecessary problems in new relationships. So today, I want to give you an exact response that will save you hours of annoying jealous conversations with any guy... Produced by MATTHEW HUSSEY & JAMESON JORDAN Written by MATTHEW HUSSEY, JAMESON JORDAN, & MICHELLE GARCIA Animation by MICHELLE GARCIA Music - artlist.io "Little Sparrow" by RACOON RACOON "Goodbye Youth Tango" by Ilya Truhonov ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey
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Natalia Suarez (1 month ago)
hey! Why Argentina?
rida zehra (2 months ago)
I love this cartoon series
Keshia Robertson (2 months ago)
I’m the pretty one
Screw anime
anime_maniac 26 (3 months ago)
DUDE! Stop distracting driver! It's dangerous! why are you even recording in the car anyway?!
Sarah Jane Smith (3 months ago)
I love the animation. Very "Ricky Gervais Show". 👌👌
Ghastly Jenkins (3 months ago)
So lie. That should work.
Cey No (3 months ago)
Where are the seat belts?
Aphrodite G (4 months ago)
How does he/she/they/zur etc. feel about exclusivity and loyalty? Is she/he/they/zur etc. still hung up on an ex? Does she/he/they/zur etc view YOU as their present and future? These are the questions you should be asking, nowadays almost every adult has had one or more relationships.
stephencolbert5 (4 months ago)
Hatred towards Chicago is never irrational. lol :)
Avalon Mist (4 months ago)
Quite honestly we are not 12 right and Virgins. I will say when causally dating I Will try to respect the guy and not talk about past dates and when it comes up I have said with a smile " for me to know and you to find out " with a tease and shove or something. I will say with early dating if he talks liberally about his past dating I will then feel I can share too. However early in I watch for that kind of spin for me it is a bit of a yellow flag to listen and see where he goes with the conversation. There have been times I have Wasted my precious time feeling like my date's counsler. That could mean I am a rebound or not. Is what it is....
Close Grip Bench press (4 months ago)
so, basically manipulate
FAIL (4 months ago)
I got so pissed i broke up with her when she told me they had Sex. I asked if they knew each other before. She said no no it meant nothing we just had good sex, i love you. we where just friends and it happend. u said u dont knew eacht other before. yea we became friends. so you met a few times to have sex and became friends? yes and it meant nothing to me. I was so fkn pissed after that conversation, the lies that made it even worse.. I felt like shit my gf is a whore and all that was a trap, she is not who i was thinking and later i missed her so badly but i could not get over it so we both suffered but i met a rly cool girl some months after that and were just friends and she told me she has a f+ and we talked a lot over all those things and we fell in love and i was perfectly fine with her having a f+ even fking with him some nights right after we hang out together, she stopped the f+ thing to be together with me. I think the big difference was i had to tolerate her f+ thing because we were just friends anyway i had no problem with it. Also the fact that we fell in love trough friendship and not like usual dating or f+ and then get together.
freddie robinson (4 months ago)
Samantha Cleland (4 months ago)
I loved this animation episode. Great visual and really funny
nikkisahota89 (4 months ago)
Hahaha yes!!! I did hate the country or him even visiting there!
Greg Lundberg (5 months ago)
As a guy, this is great, and I think will be really helpful to me moving forward.
Anilla Cipriano (5 months ago)
Yes, you’re 💯 right. I truly enjoy your videos. Thank you
Makeup TihVuhShik (5 months ago)
Sharon LeAnne Miller (5 months ago)
I loved the animation on this! Soooo attention getting... and adorable! great concept idea and advice great job Matthew!
Ame Ra (5 months ago)
So what do you do if you’re the jealous partner in this story and you can’t stop thinking about it and you don’t get the reassurance you need?
Oh Dear (5 months ago)
Great advice!
Julia Zhou (6 months ago)
aw the ending is o sweet
Lucy Dill (6 months ago)
I’m a single mom working hard for my daughter school I’m struggling cause her dad past away 8 years ago I’m seeing this guy that is taking advantage of me knowing I’m struggling and comes to my house eats my food and doesn’t help with my groceries. He also uses my car never puts gas it hasn’t been easy for me I’m annoyed
inas ahmed (6 months ago)
I wish i watched this last night😭😭😭😂😂
Jimena Salas Ugarte (6 months ago)
Why are you repeating content?
Jayashree Sreedharan (6 months ago)
If. There. Is. No. Trust. It. Is. Better. Not. To. Go. For. Relationship
Bernard Linares (6 months ago)
1:38 lmao describing how i am, its funny to the point that's scary
Magallanes 2540 (6 months ago)
""Screw Argentina" is a phrase I often hear in Chile.
TheRoyalBear Gaming (6 months ago)
I was in the position of the guy here recently, and honestly if my now ex girlfriend had just told me what this video instructed it would have made my life so much easier. Unfortunately it would have been a lie too, we broke up because she can't get over him despite the fact he left her and the country.
Regina Banda (6 months ago)
I got a question. How do you stop your insecurities? I have a lot of them. Even though I know my boyfriend isn’t cheating, I still get jealous when he talks to girls who are prettier than me. It drive me insane to where I don’t want him talking to other girls at all. But the thing is, I don’t want to stop him from making friends. But what if he starts falling in love with another girl? I don’t know what to do. This is why I’m always depressed.
Nikki E. (6 months ago)
Look, it's Matthew as a cartoon.
Marina Arnaudo (6 months ago)
Seriously Matthew Hussey? So much explanation for something we all have? A past. Oh, and by the way, I am Argentinian. What girl broke your heart sweetheart? xD
Kenny Arias (6 months ago)
Your voice is so slow
zahra mahdieh (6 months ago)
Mathew, Your seat belt!!!
Mags McGinty (6 months ago)
Why has money been taken from my credit card, that I have not authorised!!!? Ladies, these people are SCAMMERS!! Do NOT give them your credit card details!!!
Dram n Jam (6 months ago)
Why has money been taken from my credit card today again - this was not authorised!!! I am going to have to put a stop on card. Somebody better contact me immediately!!
Yasmin Khan (6 months ago)
I dated a Canadian for two years and I'm always triggered when someone mentions Canada hahahahaha
Jones Simone (6 months ago)
Love the animation
Maya Hampton (6 months ago)
When and doubt SCREW ARGENTINA!! 😂LOL
Sarah B (6 months ago)
How do you keep in touch after dating someone abroad, if you know you are going back to that country after a few months and would like to meet on another date? How do you keep him interested?
Ashleigh Monique (6 months ago)
this is probably the weirdest thing ever, but listening to Matt's voice helps me sleep. don't get me wrong he's not boring, his voice is just so relaxing :') Matt, if you see this, hi! hehe x
Almost Adulting (6 months ago)
The simple reason you don’t have a relationship is because using all these tips yes they help but when your activity looking and using these it wont work because we cant decide our fate Real love comes out of complete random you will find someone who is completely obsessed with you and it will just be easy.
Bee Hay (6 months ago)
I appreciate your videos. I need your help. Is it possible to email you a question? I would appreciate it. Thanks!
Brian McKenzie (6 months ago)
When she says to you - You and I are just friends - you are never getting sex When she says to you - He and I are just friends - she is f'ing him senseless on the regular. EVERY. DAMN. TIME.
ga kailyn (6 months ago)
I have a question: how would a straight woman make her man feel confident in his masculinity if she also has masculine energy? My bf has mentioned he needs more validation...but i don't know how to make him feel good about himself when everything he does for me is stuff I already do for myself. Edit: also, I like don't know how to compliment men without sounding sarcastic. When I genuinely try to validate a man it's the same stuff I'd say to a woman. Like...what do you do when you're a straight girl who's better at being a bf than a gf?
Kate Miller (6 months ago)
I am delighted to find supportive advice about men. Mathew Hussey & your kindness revolution is so my style. Thank you.
Lily Joyeux (6 months ago)
So cute ❤️
Mags McGinty (6 months ago)
Why is your company trying to take additional payments from my bank account, that I have not authorised!!!!!
Anja Merle Schulz (6 months ago)
Hey Matthew, I have been listening to a lot of speeches about men going quite when they are upset and how differently they communicate than women. My question is this: How can I tell that my partner is happy and also how do I adress it, if he is not happy?
Michelle Williams (6 months ago)
Something to consider: Make a partner video with the National Domestoc Violence Hotline and discuss healthy relationships. The have a website called Loveisrespect.org that goes over what to look for in healthy relationships. Domestic violence awareness month is coming up. His advice has been sooo good but this kind of video could save lives.
Michelle Park (6 months ago)
I love the video. But I NEED HELP. PLEASE!! AN ADVICE. I'm at college, I'm 21 years old. I like a lot this guy, (he is 26) but he works at my school (he is not a student, helps to do paper work at school) I talk to him, I did about that thing "asking a favor to approach him and talk a little bit" it worked. I have say hi. Everytime I see him. But he still won't approach cause he is at his work. I can't approach him cause he is at his work. I'm just there to study. He is not supposed to be like hanging out with students. What can I do? Please I hope you see this. I really want to try something with this guy.
Alexandra C.L (6 months ago)
Ive watched most of your radio Comments, questions, and advice, but I love watching them all over again with these cute cartoons :D <3
Mslizzybell (6 months ago)
I’m just curious. So at the end, the girl said stuff like “your interesting, I care a ton about you, I want to put all my interest in you.” I said stuff like this to my ex and that made his ego HUGE.... huge enough that he felt he could get another woman. I blame myself, I don’t miss him but I don’t want this to happen in future relationships. To the point where I avoid complimenting my guy. How do you get around this?
R. Pepion (6 months ago)
Hahaha that happened to me with Australia. For a bit still on the fence about that entire country cuz of one guy lol
JaanetTheMaverick (6 months ago)
Theres a guy at my school who I like. He will stare a lot and make eye contact with me, but never talk to me. I texted him the other day for the first time and the convo went great but he isn't texting me at all today.. should i be the first to text him again or does this mean he isnt interested?
Sister (6 months ago)
Kymera Lynn (6 months ago)
Does he have a video about men and pornography? My SO is constantly watching porn instead of sleeping with me. I started trying to get in shape and being into what he's into and it's like the thinner I get and the more confidence I get the more he pulls away and doesn't want me or my body. Porn really hurts me for reasons from my previous abusive relationship. So like, if there is a video or some advice someone can give me. That'd be cool.
Kelli Shaye (6 months ago)
This is adorable!
Kathleen Cohen (6 months ago)
Love you, D., still. PEACE.
rzaba (6 months ago)
You look and sound a bit like fully evolved form of Daniel Radcliffe
Camille O (6 months ago)
can i just say the radio frequency change with you appearing is GENIUS
Suzi SaintJames (6 months ago)
You are way too attractive to waste your money on animation! It would be way smarter to do a giveaway on one of your courses! 💜🌞🌵
Doug Joseph (6 months ago)
"saw each other for a couple of months"? What does that mean? You hooked up a lot?
Kuky Tang (6 months ago)
Haha hey! I am from argentina HAHA loved it
Spartan Elf (6 months ago)
Just for the record, it didn't bother me that he said screw Argentina at all (my country) it was a funny example in a video, guys can we not look for things to be triggered for once
chingyee100 (6 months ago)
Thank you so much for this as this is exactly what I’m going through now!! My bf dig out the texts I hooked up with few months ago before I’m with him and he seems he couldn’t get over it and picking up every small little things ..... we had tons of fight and we still want to be together trying to rebuild the trust. He has that fear of losing me and worried I will cheat on him ..... That really stress me out and I wanna know what else can I do to help in this relationship?
Rich As F*ck (7 months ago)
Do list the name of the animation studio. Neat, clean, cute!
Nick (7 months ago)
Sooo just lie? Got it. Lmao
Cherry Blossom Breeze (7 months ago)
I don’t think I can watch Matthew Hussey as a regular flesh and blood human anymore. If he’s not a cartoon, I’m just not interested 😁😉✌️
love the cartoon!!! :)
Michelle White (7 months ago)
I found this hilarious! Reminded me of the same setup as drunk history. Informative but funny. More!!
Julia Clarke (7 months ago)
Do you do podcast?
Lololol screw argentina
Cheryl Mendonca (7 months ago)
This video .. so relatable :) the girl talking in your voice was kinda funny 🙈
Monica Williams (7 months ago)
Ah dear, should have watched this earlier 😂
Benedicta D. (7 months ago)
I had a problem with Asia for some time, well now you know I'm fine because my closest friends are Asians 😅
Ashley Allyouneedtoknow (7 months ago)
This was great information Thanks
Diosa Palas (7 months ago)
I believe it's the first time i have heard an english-speaking youtuber mention my country. That made happy for a moment but then i realize it was a negative reference. Now i am pissed. Fuck u
Sarah Ben (7 months ago)
Matthew, ae you repeating yourself ? I've noticed you repeated the same content in a couple of videos other than this one.. Still love your content though ;) <3
Diane Montanez (7 months ago)
I love the animation element! My favorite part: “Screw Argentina; I’m never going there again!” LOL #guilty
Sarizza Hagen (7 months ago)
But your head isnt that skinny, you have a wide head. Dont deny it, just accept it and love your wide head.
Sarizza Hagen (7 months ago)
I really like seeing your voice in a girls body, because it makes it more clear how you talk vs how a typical girl talks.
ruenhonx (7 months ago)
Keep doing the animation thing, I love it. I relate to it more
Soleil Magica (7 months ago)
This was funny as hell
Kingpin Titan (7 months ago)
I swear I have heard you tell the exact same advice before, right down the city anecdote.
Acidburn2010 (7 months ago)
Simple solution, stay far away from the ex's. no contact at all to avoid unnecessary arguments. Finding the perfect date can be hard. I have discovered a guide that can help you out, like it did me,with finding the right date. Give it try. https://bit.ly/2Dosald
highProtein Zupot (7 months ago)
But if hes always talking about exes, even after we were in bed, its time to go for me!
Caroline (7 months ago)
screw argentina. LITERALLY ME. oh my god amazing.
vohnvohn (7 months ago)
The animation is BRILLIANT. Keep it up!! 😁😁
Sammy Long (7 months ago)
Ummmm can we please appreciate this animation. Hahaha. Amazing.
Citlalli Ramos (7 months ago)
I hate uk lol
Jacqueline Melody (7 months ago)
Old advice,new video
Large Coke (7 months ago)
Lol your methods makes the girl sound waaaaaaay more manipulative than a direct response of "yes we fucked but you are what matters now"... Please don't base your life soley on YouTube videos.. Use your own judgement
o0Avalon0o (7 months ago)
I was in a bad mood and wanted to dislike this video so much but I couldn't do it. It's really well made, has great advise and a positive message. Sorry for kind of being a jerk.
Syed Faisal (7 months ago)
Is it Camilla Cabello driving the car listening to Matt? 😂
Thembi Costa (7 months ago)
Omg I don't have the energy for this nonsense... No husband no kids Happy !
rrbyrne (7 months ago)
Love the blurred out birds 😂
Magpie (7 months ago)
Seriously if as soon as your partner mentions a friend of the opposite gender you think they’re cheating on you or that they had to have fucked in the past, you really lack any kind of trust in your partner and that’s really fucking sad and controlling ...

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