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In this video Authentic Game Coach Stephan Erdman shows you the 3 key things men do around women that freak creep or weird them out. These three things make you immediately unattractive to women.
Usually without even being aware of it. He also shares key ideas about what works with women and how to attract women by basically doing the opposite.
Have you ever approached a girl and after about 30 seconds she looked like she wanted to run? And you could see that she was just looking for a good excuse to leave, quickly?
It's one of the most frustrating things a guy can experience. Freaking a girl out without knowing why she is freaked out. In this video authentic game expert Stephan Erdman shares 3 key things that will make women uncomfortable, guaranteed and we've probably ALL been guilty of doing this at some point in our lives.
See, if you have all the dating strategies in the world, have learned everything there is about meeting women and you still unknowingly do these three things then women will react badly to you. No if's, no buts. But be aware...most guys do this unconsciously.
Stop freaking, creeping or weirding girls out by simply becoming aware when you do one, two or even all three of these things. And force yourself to do the opposite. Today. You will notice amazing changes in the way that women will react to you.
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Just being honest here. I’ve done this. Especially the first one. Not intending to be creepy, just awkward about approaching, which doesn’t help. I really saw the impact it has when you were demonstrating the behavior. Yes it is creepy. I never realized it until now. Thank you very much. I will be mindful of this now.
I hate fucking classroom setting. I look like a serial killer so everything is reversed for me, people do this shit to me. I thought this would end after highschool, (I had a shitty haircut and dressed poorly didn’t understand social norms) but now after fixing those things and after working with people at my retail job first day of class in my community college I’m like looking forward at the teacher and someone sitting right in front of me turns around and makes eye contact with me immediately looks freaked out and quickly turns back to the teacher. This happened like 5 times within an hour and a half. Idk what I’m doing wrong, and only happens in school.
I do hover but its because my asperger's causes me to have a poor sense of spatial relationship between objects. My ex bitched about it all the time but eased up on me once I got my diagnosis. I am getting better at it though. Dude, your voice is awesome btw are you from Germany?
First don't be excited why cause its weird and they may think you like them. Stare and Avoid you maybe giving them the idea you like them or find them attractive. That Hovering is acting like a stalker. Why does this bother women well cause they do this shit when they like a guy and girls don't like you liking them. Don't give a fuck about them joke treat them sorta shitty. Why this works is that it makes them think they can't have you or you are not interested in them. 2 things women want 1 money, 2 what they can't have.
I do my best to avoid uncomfortable situations with women period, unusual good at that, however ladies I've met may sometimes put things in their minds from hear say that are completely wrong when I verify it.
Oh crap, I screenshotted her on Instagram on accident and she said why did you screenshot this?... I said I wanted to show you I care for you, I'm not going to send it to anyone and I'm not a creep. Is she going to mad at me the next day and tell everyone else?
she looks at me, straight in to my eyes for about 3 seconds i can't hold it longer i have to get my cup off coffee before I look down she raises her rigth eyebrow and the only thing I can say at the moment is good morning ... done deal i made her feel uncomfortable freak her out. even I put my little act like Spartans!! what is your occupation? ahuu!! ahuu! she disassemble me, by simply being her, if I was a dog my tail will be all over the place she will know right there that i have feelings for her. why is so complicated humans relationships why do I have fellings why only her
There is a girl at my workplace.. airport. She comes around me and makes eye contact often... When I see her she turns away and again she continues the process.. She comes in front of me often.. Recently she accompanies a male colleague and still she makes eye contact with me.. is it like she is making me jealous? we never spoke yet.. this is happening for about 3 months now.. I have a feeling she is interested in me.. what's your thoughts? Advice me.. Thanks in advance.
I walk into a room. Then say hello.
I have an uncanny ability to piss people off by doing that.
When I offer a date to a women. Then she gets creeped out then calls on her males to protect her.
When I tell my adult peers that I am a 34 year old male with no childern or has never been never been married.
The first question is are you gay.
I am not so I say no.
Then the weird out occurs.
I cant win!
When I catch guys staring at me, I'll either stare back at them until they look away & keep staring until they get the message while they try to take another look at me, or I'll give a nice smile & look away (that's rare tho).
Really both. Just to be clear, I'm not criticizing you; I can see where you're coming from, and I wouldn't tell you to stop smiling, but staring back and smiling definitely can give guys the wrong idea.
I don't like freaking girls out either. Let go of attachment to outcome, be your best version of yourself, enjoy the moment and the girls presence, and let the good times roll. If that's not making her comfortable, it's on her, not you. Peace.
if you stare at a woman and she ignores you or if she get up and change location that means she doesn't want your attention. The truth is most woman enjoy when a man stare at them, no they don't like when men try to constantly approach them to pick them up. no they don't like it when a man evade their space no matter how physically attractive you maybe to her. If she wants to be approach she would go to a club, bar or supermarket. it takes less than 5 minutes to get a man sexually aroused just by looking at a hot woman with 38 d's wearing a tight t-shirt.woman are aware of this.If you are in a library a place where mostly woman go not only because they like to read but it is also part of their fantasy. just like the park and the beach.if she is wearing tight revealing clothes and she notice you staring from across the room, and she bends over like she is picking up a book.she is interested.or if she is sitting down and she knows you are looking at her, and she has a tight t-shirt on, and her breathing gets heavier and you notice she is arouse and she knows that you notice.this is when the library fantasy is happening in her mind.all you need to do is give her a simple and short compliment such as I love your hair, the color even matches your eyes introduce yourself to her. give her your business card and leave. it all should take less than 2 minutes. the key is to show her you have self control and restraint.
women were just put here to make men crazy, annoyed, and feel worthless, and after 20 of these videos, I'm just getting pissed off and I'm thinking its easier to just ignore them altogether. Then you can avoid the uncomfortable feeling of wanting them to leave as soon as your done, and how all that effort was not worth it.
You left out one other sure fire way ! Eat a big bowl of Macaroni with beans for dinner ! Wash that all down with a 32 ounce Vanilla thick shake ! Then, get very close to her, and fart like there is no tomorrow ! When she gets a good whiff of that fart , trust me she will leave you , and you will never she her ugly face again ! PS , You will enjoy that fart yourself , and you will be farting all night long , so enjoy the smell by yourself !!! Opps, gotta go now, I just let out a big one !
Ive never really known what creepy means. I get it now so i am fucked then because i am introvert with poor social skills around the ladies this mainly comes form being on the Autism spectrum. So yeh creep thats me and there nothing i can do about it .How about we just have tolerance for creeps as many dont even know they are these so called creeps which i suggest is just an extroverts persecution term for introverts.
When you stare, it says 'wow, I am thinking of you in lots of scenarios including whether I can see you as my wife' The 'avoid' says 'wow my soul was open there - I was so nearly vulnerable, but society has made me feel like a rapist' next time you see her, you should shrug and say ' I just found you amazing earler, sorry.
No one needs to know that you were thinking 'wow, I used to get an erection just by looking at a woman, but now I need to be able to picture her in an anal threeway before I can even be bothered to smile.
One way to freak women out is to wear a jacket with a t-shirt, Miami Playboy Style and start all sentences loud with a conspiritorial low fade-out, as if you are saying 'I am more psychologically aware than you, and I know what you should do'
Here's some HUGE things to avoid based on my own experience:
These should be avoided by all men, even attractive males with deep, sexy voices (like myself).
In that last sentence, I'm not gloating about myself, I'm making a point about how creepy the behavior I'm about to explain is. That statement proves that being creepy has nothing to do with looks. Creepiness has all to do with body language/behavior.
Basically, two things to avoid:
1) don't ever make strong eye contact with girls without AT LEAST smirking every once in a while. A fairly persistent smirk with a playful attitude is what you want, and this will attract billions of women. This is the essential difference between creepy staring and strong eye contact.
2) don't make eye contact with a girl more than 3 times without starting a conversation. At the first glance, it's normal to not talk to her or go up to her right away. At the second, still normal, and now she's probably waiting. At the third, she's wondering why you haven't talked to her, and maybe she's loosing interest. Anything after that and you become the "creepy guy at the (insert place here)". This problem is made worse if your eye contact is strong but your face isn't inviting. This doesn't really matter the first time, but the 2-3 time, a neutral face will aggravate the issue.
Here's why you avoid these:
These happened my first semester of senior year at a high school I'd only be at for a few months. So, like I said, I'm an attractive guy. I also have a very deep voice, and I'm fairly tall. My mere existence gets me lots of glances from women. This is great. HOWEVER, I was an introverted, insecure, fake-nice fuckhead my previous years in high school, which was when I wasn't so attractive. My senior year I resolved to fix these issues, and this was made easier by the fact that I had become sexy. So, I did the typical stuff: Developed eye contact, Stopped being fake-nice, Walked with great posture and a good stride, Practiced never breaking eye contact first, Developed good tonality, etc.
These were good exterior fixes that did boost my confidence, but inside I was still insecure. This led to me being unable to smile easily, and to always having a super serious face on. I also had this thing where, because I knew girls were attracted to me, I'd be afraid to ruin the attraction by going up to talk to them because I've always had a hard time relating with people (really, this was just super low self-esteem). These things, combined with the deep voice and the fact that I'm naturally somewhat of a mr. Serious ass, led to me coming off as intimidating/threatening to guys and creepy to women. I was told that I always looked mean/mad, and that, as I walked down the halls, there were visible disturbances in the flow of students caused by people moving out of my way to avoid my psycho-looking ass. But in my head, I thought my face looked neutral.
Imagine that intimidating, blank face with intense eye contact looking at girls. I would always hold eye contact with flirty girls who glanced at me until they looked first. They looked away slightly happy (because I looked) yet visibly confused because I probably looked pissed. Also, I never went up to talk to them, because they were all hot girls and I had that low-ass self-esteem.
Eventually, no girls looked at me and I remained friendless because I always looked pissed and was probably labeled off as a creepy loner in the end despite being hella sexy.
AND HERES WHY YOU DO smile and make eye contact. Once you have the eye contact, a smile goes a long way.
At that high school, ONCE, I smiled at a pretty girl as she walked down the hall and I walked up it. She got all giggly and smiley and was clearly feeling it. We walked past each other, and then I proceeded to never talk to her... glorious.
Another time, many months later, I was still the same insecure fucker, but was working on my smiling. So the same scenario comes up. I'm walking down an empty hall while a staff lady comes up it. I was making eye contact but decided that not smiling would be retarded. So I forced myself to produce the most half-assed, awkward-feeling smile of my life. The lady smiles back big. But I continued and thought that I probably looked stupid.
Later that day, I get the standard hearing test with that staff lady. She tells me to name what I see and I do with that deep, strong tonality. That's as far as our interaction went.
After I'm done, she tells me and her co-workers that I'm "extremely charismatic" that I'll "go very very far in life".
... but I didn't say shit to this woman. I concluded that her worshipping me was all because of my confident-seeming stride, strong tonality, and, most crucially, strong eye contact combined with a SMILE.
+Kenny Hutchins, I know what you mean. I'm a bachelor and a lot of women know it: what really turns me off is a lot of old heavy set women stare at me without turning away. Sometimes they even bend over like they want me to look at their behind! Its not only useless to me but actually an an annoyance.
At school there's a little stubby girl that thinks just staring at a boy and he stares back means he instantly loves her and wants to date her. I called her a creep because of that because she stares at me. But I got a different girlfriend and she looks way better than her
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