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Why You Get Shy When You're Talking To Women | How To Overcome The Fear Of Standing Out!

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Check out the Confidence Challenge: http://authenticgame.com/p/double-your-confidence-challenge-trial Learn to approach women: http://autheticgame.com/p/approach-at-will-new Have you ever held back around women you were on dates with without any logical reason? Felt shy in social situations without even being worried about anything in particular? Held back when you wanted to talk to a girl you were interested in, or at parties, at work or just when other people are around, almost as if by habit? Then you may well be falling into a subconscious pattern that many men fall into, even after they have developed the kind of confidence and self esteem they've wanted to develop in their life. The problem was that whenever they leave the house and interact with others their state shifts and they can't figure out why.. In this video Authentic Game Coach Stephan Erdman explains why this may be happening...and how to change it step by step. Check out the Confidence Challenge: http://authenticgame.com/p/double-your-confidence-challenge-trial Learn to approach women: http://autheticgame.com/p/approach-at-will-new -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "How To Get A Girl To Like You Before You Talk To Her | Attraction Fundamentals In 60 Seconds" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wngnQtN0Dw Programs by Stephan Erdman: To Join My Newsletter go here: http://authenticgame.com Learn how to meet women and get their numbers in your every day life with Stephan Erdman's ultimate natural approach book: http://bit.ly/AAWBook Learn how to attract and seduce women in conversation without routines or scripts: http://www.authenticgame.com/p/pimp-your-lingo-offer-page Double Your Confidence in 6 Weeks from the inside out: https://www.authenticgame.com/p/double-your-confidence-challenge-trial Learn how to use "confidence conditioning" to rediscover your self confidence, self esteem and man power with the ultimate collection of confidence methods: http://authenticgame.com/57-ultimate-confidence-methods Stay in touch on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/stephanerdmanauthenticgame Instagram: #stephanerdman MY KIT: Camera: Canon 200D DSLR: https://amzn.to/2IOw9JC Studio Lens: Canon EF-S 24mm f/2.8 STM Pancake Lens: https://amzn.to/2GOWjtD Vlogging Lens: Canon EF-S 10-18mm f/4.5-5.6 IS STM Lens: https://amzn.to/2GPdw6b Studio Lens: Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 STM Lens: https://amzn.to/2VuBV9d Lavalier Mic: Boya BY-M1 3.5mm lavalier mic: https://amzn.to/2LaV6Rx Shotgun Mic: Movo VXR10: https://amzn.to/2IMfk1Z Shotgun Mic: Rode VideoMicro: https://amzn.to/2DE5uLt -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
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Xbot4Life (1 month ago)
My lack of confidence is because of my weight. When i diet and start losing weight, the attention i get and the confidence i get goes crazy, id love to see what happens if i actually stuck to me diet but i work in a very unsupportive workplace where people bring crisps, chocolates, cakes and goodies ALL the time to work and its hard to resist. 1st world problems.
George Marsilio (3 months ago)
This video was exelent
A. Cruz (4 months ago)
Great video, never thought about it that way. Although I do prefer thinking about it as "confident" instead of "happy."
Gue Imem (5 months ago)
i think ..... you never had a ''second chance'' to make a ''1st impression'' hehe
Owondr (5 months ago)
Good point about being confident as a way to raise others. Sometimes it’s easier to give to others than ourselves, but this is only a phase.
Skyler Gratton (5 months ago)
It’s on my phone screen. It’s ok to be happier than the people around you!
Румен Бонев (5 months ago)
It's totally ok to be happier than the people around me!!!
Game Ing (5 months ago)
This is bad advice being shy is a condition
Johann Kok (5 months ago)
I just realised that I tend to do the same - thanks for the wakeup call Stephan.
Shinigami117 S (5 months ago)
Alex Kong (5 months ago)
Nice mindset. You‘re right! Thanks ...
Jorge Rivera (5 months ago)
Sometimes I feel the same way like personality will make people feel like shit so I hold back and just start think all this crazy shit . There this hot girl that said I was hot I was told by another female . And I didn’t got hit on her cuz I didnt want my cousin to feel like shit so I held back .
Christopher Simonot (5 months ago)
Very helpful! Now how do I change my profile pic...
iomtilt (5 months ago)
Awesome video Stephan; simple idea that helps make the world happier place, total brilliance.
Fayez Fouad Mohammed (6 months ago)
You are the best stiphan
ICET100 (1 month ago)
its Stephan Not Stiphan
Jason Guzman (6 months ago)
Thanks for bringing that up. I often feel guilty for being happy while talking with someone on the train because I know how annoying and anxious it is when im by myself.
USMAAN (6 months ago)
Very good video. Simple, very effective.
Julio Taborda (6 months ago)
your videos are always on point! i Have watched for the past years and sure i have become a much better person! Even though I do not have problems with girls in some years now, it's always good to get some new information and different knowledge with your content! they sure add to my life.
ceeloc (6 months ago)
I have this subconscious belief if I’m smiling and laughing that it pisses people off and I will be punished. I can I get rid of this?
Keep maintaining your state with awareness and proving to yourself that you're going to be ok. Your state is too precious to let other people dominate it.
Corey Ross (6 months ago)
Good tips Stephan! I need to remind myself this. Thank you much blessing!
Blair MacEwan Crosbie (6 months ago)
Good stuff Stephan. I have watched a lot of your videos but not commented before. You have insight and perception about the human condition. i believe the word is perspicacious..........Thank you for sharing your wisdom, which of course is very different from knowledge,, Cheers, Blair.
MisticWays (6 months ago)
Can you make a video about how to be more natural and less more in your head when you are with women?
neighb0r (6 months ago)
MisticWays this please I still get self conscious of my goddamn breathing when I’m laying with my girlfriend of 3 fucking months
Correct opinion guy (6 months ago)
If I approach the first few things I say I feel confident but then when i kinda realize what I’m doing I get nervous
yeahyeahblabla someguy (5 months ago)
As long as the guy is good looking the woman doesent care if he is shy or a little bit weird, I have seen it myself. If he is good looking they just think its cute.
Brandon Sangalang (6 months ago)
I just experienced this a while ago and it's so true. Kudos and more power Stephan!
RAUL MIRUT (6 months ago)
Womans are not humans.
Happy Emoji (5 months ago)
RAUL MIRUT Yeah they’re Satan’s creation
Stakker Humanoid (6 months ago)
I'm the first to comment! You are not! Ha! Ha! The D.P.R.K wins !

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