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11 First Date Tips That Are Actually Useful - Don't Turn Her Off + Lock Down the Second Date

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Do you want to turn her off on your first date? Of course not, so use these 11 powerful, but simple, first date tips for men to nail your first date. My dude... congratulations! You did it: You worked up the courage to ask that gorgeous girl out, and now you’re going on a first date. Now: I’m going to assume you really like this girl, and want to keep her around. …Or I basically assume that you’d like this to be more than just a first date. So... to help you turn this first date into a second, in this video, we give you 11 easy-to-follow first date tips. Use them to hold her interest, NOT turn her off, and make her really want to see you again. ...And if you really want to nail your first date, check out our full article here on first date tips for men here: https://www.mantelligence.com/first-date-tips-for-men/
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MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Have you had a bad first date before? Which one of these tips would have helped?
Steeve Steeve (3 months ago)
MantelligenceDating a quel heure
Ogawa San (11 months ago)
all of em actually
Sanidhya Agrawal (6 days ago)
I didn't kiss her on first date when she was ready to.. Second date never happened as her ex came back and shit. #regret life.
ravishka mewan (14 days ago)
thanks for the tips..............
MantelligenceDating (13 days ago)
Of course my man! Glad you liked it!
Akshit Rajan (1 month ago)
#3 " Be proud enough of ypur appearance " I wish i could but i am already balding. It makes me look about 4 years older. I started balding at the age of 19 and now i am 26 looking way older. Only concentrated on my studies and initially it was great and now i feel bad. I know one needs to have confidence and it is a desirable quality. I do have confidence when i undertake any task, while conversing ( normal ones or debates etc.) But in the situation when i would be interacting specifically for this* i.e when i feel interested in someone, i only feel why would she even care to come with me. Your points though are great and informative 😊👍 It does help in further developing conversation skills.
Akshit Rajan (13 days ago)
@lerge workman .... I look much older then With my present hair i look +4 years Shaved head makes me look +6 years
Lerge Workman (13 days ago)
Shave ya head, homie
Akshit Rajan (28 days ago)
+MantelligenceDating I accept your point. Mostly people ( men or women ) have a screening list to look for potential mates and looks do come in it, if not as a priority then as a desirable trait. If not found they simply are not interested. Once found a person as desirable then later on looks don't matter even as a person fades. Hpwever when already one is faded, chances are one doESN't fit as desirable 😊It is ok. I may look older right now. I must be healthy and fit. Thanks still. I appreciate your genuiness in replying to me 👍
MantelligenceDating (28 days ago)
Thanks for watching, man. As far as balding goes, lean into it! Don't try and hide the fact that you're losing your hair and don't let it keep you from being proud of yourself. If a girl is shallow enough to reject you for your hairline she doesn't have what you're looking for anyways.
Dylan Owens (1 month ago)
I’m watching this the night before my first date with a girl I really like.
MantelligenceDating (1 month ago)
How'd the date go?
T Brenneman (1 month ago)
Literally every guy on hookup apps seems to beg to meet immediately without filtering women for their match. Then they say well I need to meet the woman to determine if she’s my type. You actually don’t! There is enough you can ask to figure out if you two should even meet at all. BEFORE a great date with a GOOD woman, Guys should be asking basic filter questions like, were you ever married/do you have kids/do you have an addiction/or other disqualifies before taking three hours out of your day to prepare, drive, meet, etc. The only guys I consider high value or the ones who consider themselves high value and who are HESITANT TO MEET IMMEDIATELY. I think it’s funny when these doods don’t realize what a thot is: someone who is thirsty for anything because they have nothing and are, by nature, too eager to meet. If you aren’t filtering before the date, I guarantee you’ve always chosen a thot and will likely have a disappointing date if you get out alive. “If you think about it, you’ll stand out from other guys who kissed her on the first date.” THIS IS GOLD. Overall, be cautious, patient, and wise. I know being wise is hard lol but just try ok. Not all women are a Jodi arias but if you are smart enough to be aware of those narcissists and thots, you will have good dates because you will choose a non thot for your date and she will know she’s been filtered/approved by a discerning man. Women don’t want men who can’t discern between thots and good women.
MantelligenceDating (1 month ago)
Thanks for the feedback! We love learning from our viewers!
Micheal Myers (1 month ago)
Extra tips. 1. wear a nice perfume. Women always notice how you smell. 2. Wash your mouth. 3. Take a shower. Carry a handkerchief. 4. Just wear a neat and clean dress. 5. Wear a clean shoe.
Cristhia Lo Presti (2 months ago)
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Meme Wizard (2 months ago)
Just beee yourself
Duck Li (2 months ago)
Haha looks like the thing I need to work on is. I should talk about myself a little less. I should also have backup topic questions. I need to learn to compliment the girl.
nganthoiba singha (2 months ago)
Thanks
MantelligenceDating (2 months ago)
We're here for you, brother!
Christopher Matarazzo (3 months ago)
Any advice for a guys who's going into college and never had a girlfriend or a first kiss before? Any advice is considered.
Kenneth Walton (2 months ago)
Get a hooker!
Christopher Matarazzo (2 months ago)
MantelligenceDating thanks a lot! I'll take it in
MantelligenceDating (2 months ago)
You're about to meet tons of new people and have lots of great experiences. Be open to new things, work on yourself, and good things will happen.
Dallas V (3 months ago)
Mini golf or an arcade? Women want men, not boys.
Dallas V (3 months ago)
MantelligenceDating Fun is subjective, bro! I don't want to be with a girl who wants me to take her to an arcade. I guess your advice is good if youre 14.
MantelligenceDating (3 months ago)
But women also want to have fun. It's about balance, bro!
Mark Rubin (4 months ago)
When the bill for dinner comes to the table, hand it to her and say, " This bill is ridiculous. If I were you I wouldn't pay it".
rob bob (2 months ago)
Well the date went well and this line would have likely worked as her humor was off like that but the place it was at had issues with the register so it made things awkward and another dude was also waiting. Sorry I failed you guys. Got a second date though.
09wrxin (2 months ago)
rob bob I really wanna know how that goes ahaha.
rob bob (2 months ago)
I have a date this next week at a decent restaurant. Il let you know how the line goes down haha.
uhh MXK (2 months ago)
LMAO this would be so damn hilarious, maybe imma use this one, i'll let you know
Joel Cordero (3 months ago)
fuck hahaha this comment make me laugh
CHARLES R. WALLACE (4 months ago)
Boring dates begin with the usual dinner. What were you thinking when you issued this advice? Also; too much planning will be so obvious and not appreciated be all females you are courting. Have you ever heard; " you're trying too hard, bro." I'm not an expert, but I know enough to shoot holes in your shit.
rob bob (2 months ago)
Depends on the woman. More traditionally raised ones tend to like the dinner stuff but yeah sometimes stuff like mini golf or go to the beach can work better.
David Rogers (5 months ago)
Weekend lunch or Sunday brunch dates might be crazy enough to work and sometimes not too draining on the wallet yet at the same time VERY flexible in some ways.
Imersiion (7 months ago)
A buffet should do for food on 1st date right :)
Imersiion (6 months ago)
MantelligenceDating well I’d take my partner anywhere aslong as it isn’t really expensive
MantelligenceDating (6 months ago)
Only classy ones. You know, some place fancy like Golden Corral.
Noah Lehman (7 months ago)
"Be normal" don't be yourself...
MantelligenceDating (7 months ago)
Solid point, dude. We're all a little weird. Being normal in this case means not doing things that are going to make her feel awkward or uncomfortable on the first date. Let your personality come through, but don't alienate her.
MgtowArena (7 months ago)
Bahahaha, this video is completely contradictory to Leykis 101. No, dont show up on time, dont compliment her... nice guys get the boot.
yoyoo setan (8 months ago)
Does this applies to secondary school students
MantelligenceDating (6 months ago)
Definitely, man!
Jhon John Jon Jon Doe (8 months ago)
i recommend to behave the way she behaves in all facets as far as texting talking body language. I think it is the easiest way to do things as all advice is not a one size fits all. I believe this will work best instead of waiting 48-72 hours to call or txt. Everyone has a misconception on why you wait 48-72 hours to call or txt. It is not just because we pretend to be very busy or different then other men. we are testing her interest level because she will hit us up first if she has a higher interest level and after that we always reward her for chasing us. We go cold on her anytime she does something we don't like. The subtle art of making her behave the way we want her to behave.
Conan Barrios (5 months ago)
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Jhon John Jon Jon Doe (8 months ago)
your first date is way to expensive for a first date. I will only do coffee or a drink and talk to her first so i know if i would wanna date her.
Iwitrag (3 months ago)
Exactly, but having a small snack or something + some activity is nice idea and can be not so expensive
Arceus (9 months ago)
This channel should have more subscribers and likes, less dislikes
MantelligenceDating (9 months ago)
Yoo big man! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!
Abdellah Katsuki (9 months ago)
I LIKE YOUR VIDEOS THANKS THEY ARE SO ORIGNAL , THANK AGAIN AM WAITING FOR MORE
MantelligenceDating (9 months ago)
New video for you every Tuesday my dude!
Hidden Parad0x (10 months ago)
Me: Alright this should be easy Mantelligence: "#1: Be normal!" Me: shit nvm
gilbert suguitan (10 months ago)
but she loves gory movies. what should i do ? follow tip1?
MantelligenceDating (10 months ago)
Hah! If you know she loves that stuff... take her to it! For most guys though, who don't know, it's not the best idea
Vladimir Taylor (10 months ago)
Where the f has this been all my life??
MantelligenceDating (10 months ago)
We're here for you now brother!! Welcome to the channel + community!
Anonymous Anonymous (10 months ago)
I have two item list: 1. Be honest and respectful. 2. Expect her to be honest and respectful.
MantelligenceDating (10 months ago)
Great list big man!
booger eater (11 months ago)
I watch it cuz annasophia robb is in the tumbnail
MantelligenceDating (11 months ago)
Hell yeah!! Hope you liked the video too brother!!
Michiko Hamasaki (11 months ago)
Not all of this is true, its awfully generalizing, and make sit seem like you need to be mister extrovert just for people to like you.
Michiko Hamasaki (10 months ago)
MantelligenceDating I'm just speaking from an introvert or unconfident person's point of veiw. I just mean you don't have to be extremely outgoing, proud, and confident on a date, it's not like she's looking to be impressed by you, and it's not your job to impress her. Any real relationship is based on mutual feelings of compassion and empathy, and those feelings should be fostered before you just start going out on a date all of a sudden. I guess what I really meant was that it would be better if people became friends before going on a date, otherwise it just means one night stands or you'll have a hard time getting to know one another because the pressure of a relationship is being put on you from the start. I suppose that kind of stuff is extrovert territory, if they don't mind those kinds of things, but people should also know that theres better ways to get into relationships, without being afraid of this imaginary unescapable friend zone. It seems unhealthy to me, and it might just end up as a waste of time. Sorry for the long comment lol
Mathias Tye (10 months ago)
MantelligenceDating It's really hard for introverts to even get dates. And then keeping conversation is like a nightmare
MantelligenceDating (11 months ago)
These are first date tips. Has nothing to do with people liking you. And that doesn't even make sense. How does 'being on time' make you need to be 'mister extrovert'?
PROWRESTLINGFAN550 (11 months ago)
should i give her a gift like a chocolate or flowers at the end of the date or the start?or it doesn't matter?
VelvetSky1102 (3 months ago)
flowers and chocolate on a first date is too boring and cliche, save that stuff for Valentines day
CHARLES R. WALLACE (4 months ago)
Do not! You are going out for a first date, not proposing a marriage. Save the flowers and shit for a few days down the road, if you feel the date went well.
MantelligenceDating (11 months ago)
So happy to have you big man! Welcome to the channel/community! Stoked we're reaching you all the way over in Greece! Hope your date goes well!
PROWRESTLINGFAN550 (11 months ago)
MantelligenceDating thank you i also want to inform you that I subbed to the channel.great content keep up the awesome videos and big love from greece!
MantelligenceDating (11 months ago)
Yo my dude. Ah, good thought. Alternatively, you could get her a single flower. Kind of the best of both worlds... Let us know how it goes!!!
Robert Howland (1 year ago)
Matelligence is awesome. They offer real, practical advice. And, they're honest. They don't play games. You all need to avoid watching videos from FarFromAverage. Their videos are BS.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Glad you're liking the vids my man!
Robert Howland (1 year ago)
These guys' videos are actually honest and practical. They don't BS around.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Yeah man, that shit frustrates me too. Our focus is (just like you say) dating advice/help/feedback for normal dudes. No PUA. No BS. Just real, easy to understand, actionable advice. And PLEASE tell me if we ever stray from that....
Robert Howland (1 year ago)
Your videos are realistic. I watch videos other people make. They totally dump turds on THE NICE GUY. They say the nice guy isn't smart. The nice guy has no guts. The nice guy is a wimp. Yet, they go around praising players and BAD BOYS. I had to stop watching their videos. They made me sick.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
You da man Robert! Thanks for the kind words!
Nilson Cortez (1 year ago)
More video like this one please.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Yes sir! Was there anything in particular you want to see?
Kristian Jensen (1 year ago)
Haha, "use them to nail your first date". Great choice of words. :D
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Hah, I wish I was that sly... it was honestly not on purpose!
Gentleman Within (1 year ago)
Talked too much about myself. Waited too long for the kiss. So many first date mishaps but with each one I got better. Lots of great tips here. Particularly love having a designed date with room for spontenaiety and surprises. Works like a charm every time.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
GW! Oh man, waiting too long for the kiss was my killer, too. Well put! Each time you get better/more confident for the next one

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