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Online Dating Secrets to Being More Desirable

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Some of OKCupid’s most popular users reveal what they do to their profiles to score hundreds of messages.
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Wayne A. Pollock (9 days ago)
Knowing these knobheads are the most popular on OkCupid, I'm now thinking it should be called OkStupid.
Wayne A. Pollock (9 days ago)
You all know that guy was lying through his teeth when he said he banged her 2 days later, right? He might get a lot of dates but I reckon he'd have a high strikeout rate. Also he said he tripled his game, but what if he'd only ever banged one chick before okstupid?
Muslims Coward (28 days ago)
You're a real scumbag dude!!
Brenda B (1 month ago)
Manslut trolling for sex on a dating site while lying about his true intent ~ That never happens.
greenytaddict (2 months ago)
both of them suck
Ronald Wilson (2 months ago)
There's a lot of criticism about his guy in the comments below, but he's the one getting what he wants while the rest of you are crying in your beer. Listen: the women on these sites are not looking for the "good guys." They say they are. No doubt more comments will come in saying I'm wrong. Nevertheless, whenever I've been the "good guy" to a girl I met online, she dumps me within a couple of dates at most. When I play the aloof, unattainable role, they are the ones who light up my phone and hop in the sack. Women who say the are looking for a "nice man" are lying to you and to themselves. I've been using dating sites since '06, and what I say has been true 100 percent of the time. Don't believe me? Ask other guys. Nice guys finish last.
Hammerhead 23 (2 months ago)
That dude is not only below average looking but seems kind of pathetic on the inside
Gabriela Charatsari (3 months ago)
Tanner is a looser! Omgggg if I saw his profile I would have thought “ who the hell is this psycho” haha
Playah Dub (4 months ago)
Be white
R Picifica (4 months ago)
They both sound like assholes.
The Irish Elk (4 months ago)
These 2 are sad they have nothing to do
Tibebi Temitope Harrison (4 months ago)
Are you here looking for a perfect match DM [email protected]
Mercy M (5 months ago)
Sounds like B.S. Respect and love yourself.
Chastity Crawford (5 months ago)
All of this shit is a mind game
Tamala Tina (5 months ago)
How to get ☺
Love Conquers All (5 months ago)
Hey, didn't you see that guy on 5:20!
Love Conquers All (5 months ago)
Please dude, you r ugly as f..ck!
GOAT (5 months ago)
join htt/bit.ly/2EO043Aps:/
luis Pirri (6 months ago)
Look at lovelinksasia.com
Mono Lith (6 months ago)
She's average
R G (6 months ago)
I'd run from this guy......yuck.
Amy Dell (6 months ago)
yeap these are the people you dont want to meet online dating
Rhiyuki (7 months ago)
Djms&capo DeMorais (7 months ago)
Secrets for being successful in digging and dumping vaginas ,from gold diggers to 4 eyes timid ones. 1- Have a car 2- Nice house -Kool perfumes 4-Take a shower before meet it. 5-Tell a lot of outrageous Lies. ,6- No house?No problem..chose a rustic hostel. 7-Take bitch to dinner,cheaper better. 8- Fill wallet with fake 20/50 dolla' bills,but the top and bottom has to be real to pay dinner.A prostitute will cost you more for just a blow job. 9-Score all night,leave early.Leave note in bed:: sorry ,I have a meeting molto important.,ciao" 10-If she liked your scoring style,bitch will call you back for another session. Go with the flow...until the cows cine home and she find out you're a loser. Bye
Lexie Mae (7 months ago)
She is single...yet she is a dating coach!! Hahahahahahaaaaaaa. I'm failing at this so I will coach others.
Lexie Mae (7 months ago)
His pictures look alpha in person he's beta....oh and he's a douche. He has no intention of being in a relationship he just wants get laid
DocG07 (7 months ago)
On one hand, us guys have to jump through hoops and compete with a cavalcade of dudes just to get one woman's attention, plus the creeps make it more difficult for good men. On the other hand, you have even the ugliest, fattest, lamest women who think they're Beyonce or something because a slew of dudes are trying to get at them...and if we're talking about American women, most of them are diehard feminists, damaged, and have daddy issues.
Tom Rich (7 months ago)
This is a type of guy who ruins it for the guys who wants to have a real life long partner. Sad reality is that women get tricked by these guys and become blind to genuine guys. im so done with this, MGTOW seems like the only way. I will enjoy my supercar and what I have alone.
JJJennings007 (7 months ago)
he is a 5 maybe a six with professional pictures. his body is ugh / average and he already has a double chin and an ugly nose. his stats mean nothing except he works and manipulates the system but he is shallow.
Jacqueline F (7 months ago)
That guy is NOT cute! He must use filters on all his pics.
Moon Light (7 months ago)
Vehli janta
Lisa DiConti (7 months ago)
None of them will find real love if they're just playing the system.
Antonio Guevara (7 months ago)
Jesus that guy is ugly!
Poh Beyau (7 months ago)
This two people are just average face
ktutran (8 months ago)
What a complete scrub... those women are just desperate lol
J M (8 months ago)
Coffee expert?
Xavier Rosado Soto (8 months ago)
What happened with meeting someone on a sidewalk? just a random meet
TasteMyStinkhole (6 months ago)
That's for teenagers, not adults.
kellyn221 (8 months ago)
Tanner seems like a huge douche
jjmah7 (8 months ago)
Keep an eye out for the guy here...he’s def a sex offender
Officer James (8 months ago)
He ugly
bouh1979nktt (8 months ago)
Awful !!!!
Paulette (8 months ago)
Wakili Njogu (8 months ago)
Hahaha It leads to xes as always
Rob (8 months ago)
The guy is a liar POS, and the woman is a ugly how that has no clue what she wants. They are the reason online dating doesn't work. Not the solution.
Red H (8 months ago)
The kids are all right
megan meganm (8 months ago)
Stay off dating apps ladys please I almost lost my life twice smh.
JessBisme123 (8 months ago)
That tanner guy is an example of what makes online dating shitty. He's lying and manipulating to increase the number of women he sleeps with. That's all he cares about. I loathe dudes like that.
Tony From Syracuse (8 months ago)
The dating secret: LIE
Plutoswife Life (8 months ago)
I never felt luckier to be married.
Jay (8 months ago)
That guy is..... below average
Miss T (8 months ago)
Cringeworthy. I can't even watch it anymore it's getting nauseating
Miss T (8 months ago)
No wonder these people have to resort to a dating site. Morons t say the least. Pathetic
Miss T (8 months ago)
This is what not to be. Club douchbags
Miss T (8 months ago)
Wow this dumb bitch clicks on every profile she can then gets all annoyed when they write to her what exactly they want. Dumb bitch what do you expect.
Sasha T. (8 months ago)
They need to go get a life
Alvin Andzin (8 months ago)
I don't believe online dating.
dave johnson (8 months ago)
Tine Joaquin (8 months ago)
Tanner is fckin sick! 😑
Sands of Time (8 months ago)
im sorry but the more attractive you are...the more hits you get....EVEN IF YOU HAVE A SHITTY PERSONALITY..im sorry but it is the truth...sad i know.. :/
PATTI MILTON (8 months ago)
You want to be desirable?! Be confident, be an expertise in communication and be honest to yourself! Quality vs. quantity? Oh yes, quality is more important. And I found my soulmate through my intuition, honesty and of course I use my charms! Btw, ladies respect is also important! Good luck!
Heiner Buchholz (8 months ago)
The title already implies that you may not be desirable enough.
Rick C. (9 months ago)
The girl is a 5 at best.
Rick C. (9 months ago)
Dude is an ugly nerd who smokes. GTFO
Willy Wonka (9 months ago)
And she is ugly
Willy Wonka (9 months ago)
Jessica is an idiot and shouldn't be a dating coach at all
Zeljko Trifunovic (9 months ago)
Diego Montoya (9 months ago)
Aww that's so cute! You like me? (I had sex with her 2 days later) Clearly I'm doing something wrong. :)
Myriii1911 Мириам (9 months ago)
Lol? He takes that much effort in it? I know why 🤭
Luciana De oliveira (9 months ago)
Both of them are ugly.
Vince P (9 months ago)
Where's the To Catch a Predator crew when you need them? 2:24.
Keenangoal (9 months ago)
Most women write jack shit on their profile so you ya nothing to start from
sensate444 (9 months ago)
I don't think most people actually read your profile
A New Love Official (9 months ago)
I really get nervous meeting someone from online dating because people always project themselves as a perfect individual but that doesn't happen all the time. You might find scammers and people who just wants a hook up but it still depends on us, if we're smart enough, we won't fall into their trap.
im dying to marry a girl ..im 31 years old (egypt) never had a gf or did sex lol
Joshua Collins (9 months ago)
I don't like those sites. I used to be on okcupid app. I meet my girlfriend on Filipino cupid. We respect each other and she is my heart.
Chocolate love (7 months ago)
Joshua Collins Great, never keep them waiting for too long AS SOON as your able to fly there go for it .
Joshua Collins (7 months ago)
+Chocolate love I will soon.
Chocolate love (7 months ago)
Good for you bro have you meet her in person yet ?
Elle Meek (9 months ago)
I have a hint. A man is way more desirable if he's as cool as he thinks he is!! CURRENTLY: The PERFORMANCE BEING PUT ON IS TOTALLY FAKE. and that equals devious.
Jerry Jacob (9 months ago)
okcupid published results and stats about online dating years ago. they found that white males and Asian females are the most desirable groups...notice that was the two they featured as successful. it's a shame the video didn't discuss that because truthfully online dating really isn't for everyone. okcupid says that the least desirable groups are black female and Asian males
Rajat Roy (9 months ago)
The chicks dating codi? The ghost gunner? Gun printing guy lol funny
IAmThatIAm (9 months ago)
Steven Iavarone (9 months ago)
Mandy (the blonde) is anal retentive.
asmcriminaL (9 months ago)
The girl is retarded. "If you don't take the time to write to me about yourself why would I take the time to read your message?" SHe also said earlier, "Sometimes guys write me novels." Women lie too much.
Unknown User (9 months ago)
The STDs are strong with these Padwans
K A (9 months ago)
He’s so ugly ! Creepy
Petit Bun (9 months ago)
AA (9 months ago)
Girls name @1:19 Please
nico3641 (9 months ago)
@5:41 Mandy Stadtmiller is the editor-at-large of xoJane which is a feminist website, and says that in the perfect world she wants a guy who knows how to ask a woman on a date. Why doesn't she ask guys on a date? Don't feminist want equality?
Arnold Diaz (9 months ago)
She ugly but because of the amount of attention she gets, she now thinks she a 10 lol
Lacey A (9 months ago)
Guy is super ugly
Daniel Jensen (9 months ago)
Sounds miserable
Anonymous Person (9 months ago)
"If you don't take the time to write about yourself, I'm not going to take the time to respond to you" HA! I was once like that when I lived in Michigan, I received tons of messages from men of all races on Plenty of Fish. Then I moved to Jersey, and rarely got any messages from men. I was using the same dating site in both states, BTW. When I lived in Jersey, I started responding to all of the few men who messaged me, even if their profiles were blank. It's funny how picky we get when we have lots of options, but once our options are limited, we become way more open.
Makes me sick hearing men talk about women like cars! Fuckin pigs! If I ever have a daughter and her partner talks to her like that Il flog the piece of shit half to death
Z Bardock (9 months ago)
Go outside 😹
AnnyLovesPink (9 months ago)
But what if you don't just want sex but are looking for something longterm and serious?
JamericanDC1 (9 months ago)
He's not even cute at all
Claudia Bolanos (9 months ago)
Oof i would get over 150 messages a day. I met my fiancée on OkCupid
Eclectic Reader (9 months ago)
In my personal experience during this summer, I've had some luck talking with a gorgeous blonde in my class, but she doesn't do social media for some reason, so I'm out of options for maintaining future contact with her. I mean, what am I suppose to do, email her? That would feel weird sending her a message every other week, then wondering if I'm sending her too many and annoying her. It figures. She's gorgeous. She's kind. I've lost her forever. I'm so sick of this bad luck streak.
Lucas Levon (9 months ago)
Ask her for her number genius.
La Qa (9 months ago)
"two days later we had sex" hmmm, I guess embellishing the truth used to mean a lie...
Iron Heart (10 months ago)
That's one ugly dude.
Brian Waller (10 months ago)
Online dating is a rigged game. 50% of the female profiles aren't even real people, then other 50% have so many requirements and high standards only 2% of the guys even meet. Every real female on a dating site has hoards of men to choose from. Unless you're at least 6 feet tall, make 6 figures, and have a 6 pack, and is dark skinned you have no realistic shot of being successful with online dating
Adel The Kid (7 months ago)
Dark skinned isn’t true many people are racist on the app
Bizarre Brilliance (8 months ago)
No it's not. Are you a guy on OK Cupid? You literally get no responses.
ItsJaclyn (8 months ago)
Brian Waller that's very untrue
Olivia Shanks (10 months ago)
Why don’t Tanner and Jessica go on a date together?

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