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5 Tinder Tips To Get Him To Ask You Out (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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So I have a question, how can I make the conversation go the other way around? So I'm talking with this guy, but in some way the conversation went the wrong way and now he thinks I just want to sleep with him. But I would like to actually meet him, and go out with him. So my question is, what would you say to leg him know that you ate not looking just for sex, but you are actually looking for a potential partner? Thanks in advance for the comments!!
Wiktoria Mroczka (28 days ago)
What if someone wants to meet but doesn’t have time too much? Only meets you like once in 2 weeks? How to show someone your worth going out with?😖Please someone answer!
sarah (1 month ago)
“Number 2.... *snort*” stop that before I fall in love with you more x
Bella Chartrand (1 month ago)
Not to mention, your hair is hot;)
Bella Chartrand (1 month ago)
LOL Love this video!
Jane Park (1 month ago)
Why is he on the toilet? 🤣
elalaouisosseynabil (2 months ago)
Girls, DON'T DO ANYTHING TO CHANGE YOURSELVES after watching this video! You're beautiful as you are & YOU RUN THE WORLD FOR A REASON 😍 Guys always go for physical traits, sure, but learning how to make men really fall in love with you will probably prove to be invaluable... trust me... some girls just need to learn how to attract men with their feelings and not just by looks. No offense, but that's what made all the difference for me personally 😍 if you need a good guide on how to actually captivate a man with more than just your looks to make him fall deeply in love with you, i definitely recommend checking out ReelingHimIn.com 🙏 Personally, I feel like I was getting nowhere with all the different YouTube channels though until I discovered that site lol. gl babes 💞 🙏
L J (3 months ago)
Do you think the guy on the lawn chair by the pool is getting paid to lay there, and swipe for 5 minutes on his phone....lol SWIPE this BABY...XOXO
litkate (3 months ago)
I hate it when they ghose you, unmatch u after you took the time ti message you, ghost u after a day of chatting or more, or never even bother to reply to your initial message, out of say 15 messages non eneded up in a date i though one was going good even got snapchat and all and chatted there but eventually ghosted me, 3 where only looking for sex, 5 never replied to my initial message, 3 unmatched after i messaged them, 4 messaged me back one ws only looking for good time one eventually ghoset me after 2 days of chatting one we chatted for 1 week or more and on snapchat but eventually ghosted me and one stopped messaging after a few messages. Still have tinder on phone but havent used it in 2 weeks coz i lost interest, men could at least be nice and say example: its not reallt goinnanywhere sorry instead of ghosting, reply to my message instead of ingoring it, tell me your unmatchig me before you do it, that kind of thing. You ever get people on tinder like that??
Timi Kärkkäinen (4 months ago)
Why woman cant ask man out she likes??
Chouci Vang (4 months ago)
Flirting in Life, is a game. Matt. I personally like to take the steps of aquaintance, friend, closer friend, then with enough dumb luck, she likes me, then boyfriend and girlfriend. 👍 It's exhausting on paper.
Margarita M. (4 months ago)
I have done everything you said and today I’m going on a date with a very cute guy. He even wasn’t creepy. He was pretty honest that he was looking for a hookup but then I’ve mentioned I’m new to the city he said “nevermind” and offered to take me to an exhibition of one of my favorite artist. Also he is going to get lunch with his parents today and we spend half an hour talking about our families lol.
Jake (5 months ago)
Just matched with a girl with, 'Always looking for the best Gelato in town (heart smily face)' We can get some ice cream and watch some Matthew Hussey together. Very romantic to be sure haha
Sharon Girl (5 months ago)
Are you on the pottie?
Emily Sparkles (7 months ago)
I freaking LOVE you Matt hahaha.. that swiping is so funny
Sam Green (7 months ago)
Great info
Elaine nicholson (7 months ago)
What about if we matched and are talking? We have been talking NOW on what's app two weeks . Get along great. He hasn't asked me out 😢
Lad Studio (7 months ago)
The toilet flush moment is priceless!))
Belinda Børglum (8 months ago)
lol made me smile..thank you for that! :)
Louca Tien (9 months ago)
just clicked the video because of the scene that Matthew is in a pool; sexy, delicious af
Yuhana Dewi (11 months ago)
thanks matthew, this video quite helpfull and entertaining :D
pollyorcetix (1 year ago)
Did anyone notice the guy swiping in the background while he's in the pool? LOL
Brigette O'Brien (1 year ago)
Matthew, what if the first thing a guy asks is 'What are you looking for?' ...how do I make sure I don't come in too strong or vice versa, too ..uninterested? Thanks
Juliet (1 year ago)
"don't suffer time wasters" PREACH!!!
K G (1 year ago)
Why are we talking from a bathroom stall?
a b (1 year ago)
hahahha You are so funny :D
Insanity On A Bun (1 year ago)
Number 2 XD
projectgenes1s (1 year ago)
Isabel Ezrati (1 year ago)
So getting someone to ask me out on Tinder is no issue. Guys actually move too quickly to the place where I wont respond to a message if I know I’m busy for the next couple weeks because I’m afraid he’ll lose interest if we start to chat and then can’t meet up for a while. Not everyone is that way. Some guys I chat with for months until we make a plan but they usually don’t pan out to be reliable, which is frustrating because that’s more my pace lol. I move slowly. So suffice to say- what to do about the ADD rushers? While I would say that they should be patient if they’re really interested, I don’t think that’s fair. A fair point after you’ve met someone in person but not for a chat with a static face right? What to do when everyone wants the number or the date now-or-never style?
Isabel Ezrati (1 year ago)
Love the bathroom context lol - I’m sure many swipe on the toilet. Not like I ever do... gross.
Keshia Robertson (1 year ago)
Be celibate. Thank you.
hans (1 year ago)
Love this vid! I've def suffered way too many time-wasters... like why are they even on tinder, go play candy crush instead. Now I'm gonna open my tinder app and delete a bunch of matches not going anywhere.
Gladys Tang (1 year ago)
Those are great ideas. But in my country. Guys want sex n nothing more from Tinder. It'll be much appreciated if Matthew can share some tips for how to date a guy from Tinder who he will be willing to a serious relationship
Daylie Rawlins (1 year ago)
It worked out for me
Buddy Buds (1 year ago)
Hmm mmm longer hair looks good on you
So u always swipe girls right haan 😉
Dixie Lee (1 year ago)
Lol...on the throne is great!!!we all do it.
Lidia Carnio (1 year ago)
I love tinder met my ex boyfriend there
Fireball c (1 year ago)
Grab a Hennise with you sometime 😉
Suby denae (1 year ago)
Adventure time on the back !
Sally Bowles (1 year ago)
ahah the swiping thumb is too funny
Life fix . (1 year ago)
looking very beautiful .
Sim’s Travel Vlogs (1 year ago)
I have just used tip number 4 eek 🤦🏻‍♀️it better work !! Lol
pross p (6 months ago)
HELL0NESSA (1 year ago)
Yasmine Diamandis (1 year ago)
You're such a fun person to be around, and your videos are getting better and better, you're like jesus but for girls only 😄
M. Pereira (1 year ago)
To be honest, I don't like online dating, I think it just makes everything very effortless, people end up not making the actual effort to try to know the other person and try to win her/him over and eventually end up using each other like disposible assets. That's my experience and what I have seen with friends and people I know, dad but true.... where's the good old charm and chase people????
Normy2323 (1 year ago)
You could always just ask the guy out yourself, you lazy bitch.
Bianca Woller (1 year ago)
When Matthew says "Number twoooooooo!" from the toilet :') lol
Tempy Lyra (1 year ago)
I never used online dating. Couldn’t ever get into it
Jessy Bong (1 year ago)
that is the best one
Jasi (1 year ago)
Just used the direct number thing. Worked!
Carl Page (1 year ago)
It is hilarious that women NEED ANY ADVICE about how to talk to guys after seeing all of the criticism women have about men on YouTube. For every creepy message that a woman gets on tinder they are rejecting 20 well meaning guys who struggle to create the perfect introduction message so that they get a response. Women need to stop complaining if they only want to waste a nice guy’s time
Sofie Linnea (1 year ago)
Can I write "Always on search for the best hot dog in town 🌭😏" instead? Or is that too forward?
Shelley Sheri (3 months ago)
No. Just asking for freaks.
BrightCore Studio (10 months ago)
It's perfect.
Phantasma Monkey (1 year ago)
I just had a tinder conversation with a fellow Disney fan. I challenged him to Disney trivia and I outsmarted him and then he stopped responding.
Il Pa (1 year ago)
Oh Matt - do you know how sexy you are? Its not just about the way you look . Deeelishussss
thania gamboa (1 year ago)
me encanto este video! like it, I'll do it all..
Carisa Close (1 year ago)
Gotta Love the toilet flushing
megans7skin (1 year ago)
your puns are so on point. lol Great Video!
2Bdiscovered (1 year ago)
Janeth Padilla (1 year ago)
Thank you for all your videos!! Xoxo
Charlotte Young (1 year ago)
What do you do Matt if a guy starts to interrogate you from the offset?
Saule Sar (1 year ago)
really nice advice, but i lost hope
belinda evan (1 year ago)
OMG you are so amazing and funny 😜 bless you Matthew
Sarah M. (1 year ago)
Do you have a tip, when a guy matched with you on tinder (he swiped right), but doesn't make a first step to conversation? What should a woman write to get in touch with him and attract him?
Jay Jay (2 months ago)
Nothing, he probably is a HOT one and has 500 more matches, you move on, Its a number game.
Voxx Anne-imations (1 year ago)
Thank u Matthew, for "Tinding" to this topic lol!
Sakura Moon (1 year ago)
Haha Adventure Time.
A (1 year ago)
0:47 a man that watches adventure time is a keeper. FACT
Lina Amini (1 year ago)
The hair, the toilet, the duckies... very distracting. I wonder if actual Tender users watch these videos :D For the rest of us, we love you Matt ;)
Anceli Peguero (1 year ago)
hahahaah Numbé twooo
F. Fall (1 year ago)
So I have a tinder strategy that usually works (5+ dates in a week) 1. I don't overthink my swipes. Unless there's a red flag or clear no no, I swipe right. I can later decide once we match if they are worth my time or not. 2. I ask the guy what he is looking for. 3. I always say the following : "for now, I just want a small affair, like a week long adventure. Now if you are outstanding, that's another story..." 4. If the guy has cool vibes and I picture myself on a date with them, I say: "hey I have to confess something. I am kinda old school and this texting ping pong makes me 😴 111111111 that's my number. Call me , let's do the real human interaction and see how we get on." I hope this is useful somehow. Hoping to hear other people's strategies :)
Inna Balykina (1 year ago)
Matthew, what are your thoughts on no sex before marriage? Are you for it or against it? Ladies, be careful with giving flirtatious innuendos to strange men on a hook up internet sites. Men can be dense and usually interpret this as a direct invitation to have sex. Been there, done that, it goes south every time. The man is the predator, the woman is the "prey", this is how nature has made us. By switching it up, everyone starts to get confused. A lady never needs to chase a man, or even initiate the courting. You want the right man to want YOU, because eventually you will start to feel hurt and used anyways. A man loves chasing, women, not so much. Mathew's advice doesn't work. I think he's good looking and is good at making funny videos to lighten the mood and entertain, but his actual advice has no merit. He just likes to talk. I think most of his followers are already aware of this. He wants to be taken seriously but his whole "business" is not to be taken seriously unless you're very naive. He should probably stick to comedy or acting. No offense. :-)
Anna Smith (1 year ago)
matthew you are so hot!!! omg
Mónica HG (1 year ago)
was the wc opened Matt? what were you doing ? :)
hershey989 (1 year ago)
was part of this video shot with you on the toilet? lol
Cher Fer (1 year ago)
one tip he gives is that you take something from his profile and say "you really did that?" I've been trying it and men think I'm an idiot. They're like congrats you can read. Awful advice.
DARKhorses73 (1 year ago)
I love #2. I poop all the time 💩😷
Raven Vaidos (1 year ago)
Jessica Chang (1 year ago)
So I tried the trick and gave my number to a guy on tinder but there is no follow up. What do I do next? Cut him off ruthlessly? Send him another message...? But that may seem clingy....
jojotanify (1 year ago)
0:55 dat laugh doe 😍
FictionalWishes (1 year ago)
lol the toilet and the rubber ducks! I ducking loved it.
Msfinable (2 years ago)
Hey, I had this conversation with a man who seems to be very lovely. We've been talking on Tinder for five days/nights, and our conversation goes really nicely. Fun, slightly flirtatious, interesting. But he didn't ask me out on a date. So last night he send a quick "It's late but I just wanted to ask how's your day been". Me: I had a great day *doing this and that with a friend*. It's super late, tomorrow... (I was meant to write talk tomorrow...) He: Sounds fun! Yeah I'm falling asleep as well. Nighty! He: What tomorrow dot dot dot?" Me: Tomorrow you can ask me out. Nighty! He: Okay, that's what I'll do! And he did! I didn't initially mean to get him ask me what I meant, but it happened, and I'm glad it did. I'd be interested in getting some feedback. Was this smooth or somehow pressuring? Mind you we've been talking on Tinder for "a long time". I'd love to hear.
Priyagold7 (2 years ago)
Oh no you didn't at the end...
Bente Warenburg (2 years ago)
Jamerson, you lil whiskey-named ghost, you really let me down by leaving that silly no 2 joke in. You gotta be better than that! Gotta rise to the occasion, man.
Miglė Graužinytė (2 years ago)
Mathew watching adventure time!? :)
Melisa (2 years ago)
great tips. especially like your exit 😉
Estee Sham (2 years ago)
I felt Matthew now has more of this insider joke personality other than the serious and nice look before. haha which makes me laugh so much!
Gingerbread Girl (2 years ago)
Yeah I feel like he's finally able to be himself in front of the camera. Like he's found this sort of freedom... it's fun to watch!
rakhshanda mujib (2 years ago)
So I started talking this guy with a broken heart and I've quite unintentionally done whatever you had asked. I'm being a 'smart mouth'... and so is he. 😑 He said, 'You're smart for your age and it is attractive.' So I thought playing it tricky but I guessed I messed it up totally (have I?) by saying, 'So you admit you are attracted to me? To frame your sentence in a more direct form?' and he said, 'I'm attracted to intelligence and smart conversations. By the way I don't like to be on phone and text people but I'm doing so with you.' We had a bit of conversation regarding his interest in psytrance and that's it. The last message was sent by me so I didn't text him again and have been waiting for him to reply but its been hours. You think I ruined stuffs? And oh thanks for the 9 texts! I used the 'You should totally be here right now!' to which he replied saying, 'What makes the place more special than where I am right now?' and I said, ' My presence, of course. Added to that great music and silly stars.' He said, 'I'm on my way,' and we had some great fun! No we didn't meet but it was fun. Thanks Matt! xxx
Kathy Darnell (2 years ago)
Guys I like never seem to ask me out and when they do, I'm almost immediately put in the friend category. Help! In overweight, is that why there's no attraction for them?
Mali S. (2 years ago)
Kathy Darnell it all depends how you see yourself. if u r confident people around you will be attracted to that. be your happy sweet self. the right guy will be attracted to your mind, not only the way you look.
Maddy Harvey (2 years ago)
Lol just sittin on the toilet, giving dating advice. Oh Matt. 😆
Gingerlakegirl (2 years ago)
Such a great video!
OldPanterka8 (2 years ago)
i am glad that he did make a noise in toilet. lol
I'mTheBest Cookie (2 years ago)
really guys? :)) are we actually going to ignore the adorable fact that he is watching adventure time?
Gingerbread Girl (2 years ago)
He's the cutest thing ever, hahah
kvog85 (2 years ago)
"Number 2!" hahahaha.... I'm 12 years old, apparently. :D
Sunny (2 years ago)
Matthew wats wrong with me . I have no interest in men or women what should I do about this ?
Gingerbread Girl (2 years ago)
You might be asexual! Does it make you sad that you aren't attracted to other people or are you indifferent about it?
Laura Joy (2 years ago)
Oh gosh! What is number 4?
JOSIE (2 years ago)
i was just watching the adventure time in the background
analuna (2 years ago)
Wuwusela 01 (2 years ago)
Matt, why is this so hard? I signed off a while back, apparently I have been doing all wrong! Giving this a try now. xo
Kaitlin Ramspeck (2 years ago)
#2 hahahahah
Swankster (2 years ago)
okay here's the important question. I'm remodeling my bathroom/bedroom. Should I do tile behind my toilet like in your video? It looks pretty swanky, and I have the same configuration shower/toilet that is in this video.

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