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Have you ever stopped yourself from taking the obvious next step with a girl? Have you ever stopped yourself from approaching a girl you wanted to talk to? Have you ever found yourself agonising over whether you should ask for a girl's number, or ask her out or go for the kiss or invite her to your place?
If you have then have you ever asked yourself why?
There are usually three reasons that guys mention:
1. I don't want to get rejected
2. I don't want to make the girl feel weirded out
3. I don't want other people to judge me/ laugh at me
But what's behind those reasons?
That's what we're talking about in this video. And then I give you a sneaky mindset reframe I've developed over the years that's been helping me stay in a state of mind where taking the obvious next step feels normal and logical, because it IS normal and logical.
Anyway. Check out the video for all of this.
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Hi Stephan, I'm a subscriber to your channel, great video! I'm 54 (divorced) Last night I met a smart, fit, classy, cute woman about 5 years older than me (not that age matters) at a kitchy coffee house. I approached to compliment her stand-up routine (open-mic) & we engaged in a nice 5-minute conversation about our shared interests. She was married but said her husband doesn't want to go out. I agree with your "rude not to ask for her number" mindset, but how do you tell if a woman just wants to have a nice social interaction & make a new acquaintance, or might be open to 'more than talking'? Even if she wasn't a married woman (wearing her ring) I still have this question for you Stephan. It seemed she might just want to have a nice adult conversation, and I didn't want to spoil that experience for her, by giving her the impression I only wants to talk with her so I might get to sleep with her. Thx!
+Stephan Erdman - Authentic Game thanks Stephan for sending taking the time to reply, and not judging me as a bad person for being interested in a married woman (not usually my thing!!) she mostly made me interested in that topic, of how can I tell if she's just wanting to be social. Your reply was super helpful! The best way I can thank you for your time is too forward some of your videos to my friends - which I will do!
just saw this...yeah when a married woman mentions her husband in the first couple of minutes she's usually aware of it. So the message is: I am just being social here..imho. Women don't just drop these things in accidentally most of the time...in the context it sounds like she just enjoyed the social chat because of those messages she sent. Bearing that in mind, of course you can still swap numbers if you realise you want to hang out again socially... S.
Approach is easy in places where women assume that men should do it, where I live very common place for that is dancing places (all kind of, rock&swing,tango, salsa) or what is most common mixed places where all styles are danced during evening. There you are rude if you do not ask women for dance, however there is strict formal code to dance only two dances at time and then maybe other two later in the evening, but it is not ok to dance with same women for longer time, other women get mad from that because it is normal that there is much more women, and all want to dance. One note, speaking during dance is not ok, men should just concentrate to music and dance , which makes it bit challenging :), but if you look any dancers dancing tango, or rock dances how often you see those people to talk?, not even possible.
I'm having trouble discerning the signals of friendship, from the signals of attraction. Of course many women Just Want to Have Fun conversations with men, & not be hit on constantly, correct? So how do I tell the difference?
It would be rude not to bring up spicy flirtatious compliments towards a lady I like.
It would be rude holding back on asking the woman that I'm interested in having a date with her. Not a hangout. A date. Not asking permission. But like, "I'm interested in taking you out on a date. I believe we're both up there in purely epicness status"
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