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Win Someone Over In 5 Seconds: Conversation Tricks - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

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►► Want the free guide my brother wrote exposing the charisma secrets I use on national TV and Radio? Download it here: http://www.howtogettheguy.com/behindthecurtain ▼ As a teenager, I was obsessed with learning about people. It was my #1 hobby. I would see charismatic people in interviews on TV: movie stars, public speakers, fascinating storytellers, and I would wonder, “What is their secret?” Luckily, my Dad was an enormous self-improver. He had a ton of books on communication, negotiation, influence, and thanks to him I learnt so many secrets of impact that I still use every single day in my seminars, in my YouTube videos, in my business negotiations… When you learn that importance of having influence and impact on people, you realise that it NEVER stops being important. So in this week’s video, I want to open up the kimono and share some of these secrets by showing THREE simple ways you can immediately make someone drawn to you in conversation. Download the free guide to having charisma here: http://www.howtogettheguy.com/behindthecurtain ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey ► FREE DOWNLOAD: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://bit.ly/1EpQNbm ► FREE DOWNLOAD: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” →http://ter.li/tdxzcy
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Mejor deja a camila cabello no es tuya es mia
Walker Joe (9 days ago)
Hey
Mr Unknown (13 days ago)
Just ignore them, thank me later!
tBi. eSports (15 days ago)
Conversationalist, you lost there...
michael brennan (16 days ago)
http://limpidsoft.com/ipad10/gentsetiquette.pdf For the dudes who want a few pointers on being a good person yet good on conversation.
Ian Nickle (16 days ago)
Me: Ok let me ask you this..........................
Keto Boy (19 days ago)
This dude is a punk. Teaching techniques will make someone a robot.
ReasonableRadio (26 days ago)
I'm trying to listen to what you say carefully but I'm also trying to figure out where the border between this video and the white youtube background is...
Eddie Cheung (27 days ago)
The pregnant pause LMAO
Landia Phin (28 days ago)
Whos Single here?
Max Müller (30 days ago)
Tbh i already used this a bunch of times. I tease ppl for fun but make sure they don't get upset about it. I'm honest all the time. Well not all the time but i try to be as honest as i can
célia céli (1 month ago)
I can imagine myself saying " let me ask this" : then something boring to death will come from my mouth ? 😧
BESo• W (1 month ago)
Cubus32 (1 month ago)
he kinda failed this task himself, after just 4 seconds I clicked away :p
Shirisha Bansal (1 month ago)
'Doing stuff unconsciously' should male that natural though...
League of Legends Lol (1 month ago)
*Approaches a girl* Me: So what do you do? Her: I am a management consultant Me: So let me ask you this, and *pauses* Brain cell 1: What does that mean? Brain cell 2: Do you like the job? Me: Doat like thob mean? Her: *Leaves quietly*
Do it more frequently until your brain cells get used to it.
nunya bisnass (1 month ago)
Its ok to say "i dont know how that works, can you explain it to me?" If its some common job or topic, you get them talking and offer yourself another chance to redeem your self by at least being open and willing to listen. But many times it isn't interesting to me even if it is something really important, and I'm just making small talk until i can find an opportunity to get the hell out of there. I'm a terrible person. But my problem is that I'm in general, insanely clueless. I met a voice instructor a while back that was actually funny, engaging, and spent far more time with me than necessary for that situation. I wasn't running late or anything, but did feel i was unfairly monopolising her time, wished her the best and left. Shes walking back into work, and as I'm driving away i see a sorta half hearted wave to me in my rear view. It was at that moment, i knew i fucked up.
pedro dasilva (1 month ago)
Thought this video was going to be five seconds
Sid Mukhtadir (1 month ago)
Is this Chanel only for girls ..? Cause I feel like even for a guy these tips are brilliant af
DBSK_Cassie (1 month ago)
"So let me ask you this..." "....?" "......" "???" Awkwardly walks away
C C (1 month ago)
TIM I WANNA FU K YOU OPEN UP
C C (1 month ago)
My pause is so pregnant
johanna espinoza (1 month ago)
is this camilas boyfriend
Tiny Ford (2 months ago)
The pause afterwards shows that you are stupid and cannot think quickly. I don’t spend my time talking to stupid people, and if they pause before a question I turn around and walk away
Scripterrific (2 months ago)
What if I prefer to be dominated in a conversation?
Self Made Millennial (2 months ago)
If you want to sass-it-up, trade “I have a question for you” for “Riddle me THIS.”
TheDeytow (2 months ago)
I watched the video for 5 seconds and you still haven’t won’t me over
Robert Cernea (2 months ago)
Dude , you are an expert
Tim Milgram (2 months ago)
When your name is Tim, you know the Jameson he’s talking about, think this is about you, then you realize it’s a different Tim 💀
Anna (2 months ago)
Is this guy still single? If so where can i find his number?
Zavy G (2 months ago)
The first “technique” is an idiosyncrasy that I find really annoying! XD
Luuk Brekelmans (2 months ago)
It is kinda ironic I got bored half way through this vid.
Cactus (2 months ago)
I hate that I clicked on this
beef rat (2 months ago)
bottom line, have a purpose, be honest, be genuine
seifeddine Hentous (2 months ago)
What's a management consulter?
Julie (2 months ago)
I feel he has bad breath, for some strange reason 😂
Salvo Titus (2 months ago)
How to win someone over, 2018 edition: "Hey...-" "No u"
Mish (2 months ago)
So....... I am the kind of person who is very confident and assured when it comes to work, throughout college I was really good at presentations, public speaking and communication. But when it comes to men and meeting them I just become plain rude, I don't know why that happens. What I do know is that it take me about 20 mins of conversation with the guy ( or a girl/person in any other scenario) and I've made up my mind about them, which is whether I like them or not. If I like them I am sweet as a cherry. If I don't like them I am absolutely horrifyingly rude, I know I am doing it. How do I control this please HELP! PS: My observation skills are at OCD level. In college it would look like I am engrossed in a book but I would notice, observe and remember everything and everyone as well as what they do. For eg: I saw this guy "A" in my college reading room and he was saying bad things about this girl "L". Few days later I saw him being a sweet angel to get notes from her😄😅LOL I was disgusted by him, the next semester he tried to sweet talk me into giving him notes and I said " you little shit, do you want to die?" He was in a complete state of shock. So was I Should I see a doctor?
Jonny Vango (2 months ago)
This guy gets it
WaitedLongEnough (2 months ago)
What if Tim was actually paying Jamison?
nadeen mohiar (2 months ago)
I’m not receiving his email for some reason i really wanna know the 6 tips it’s not working 😫😢
nadeen mohiar (2 months ago)
I’m not receiving his email for some reason i really wanna know the 6 tips it’s not working 😫😢
DJC DJC (2 months ago)
Some girl I hadn't seen in years..."you look amazing" Took me 1 second. Thug Life! 😎
Brave Boy (2 months ago)
How can I be honest as possible?
Wisse Stel (2 months ago)
Step 1: get a british accent
OHP77 (2 months ago)
"Oh, I just be myself." "Bullshit. There are things they do, consciously or unconsciously that makes them the most powerful person in that room." 100% nailed it. I've always had poor social skills including social anxiety disorder. Luckily I befriended someone in college (by luck of ending up in a shared suite) who had great interpersonal skills who actually was quite conscious of what he was doing and could explain instead of giving me the usual dismissive platitudes. It helped me a good deal. Your videos and some others on youtube I've since found have been even more useful, and I really appreciate that.
Quantum Leep (2 months ago)
Mathew, are you married yet or just a perennial dater?
br18578 (2 months ago)
His accent is so slightly Australian
SUWBB-#3 Lester (2 months ago)
5 seconds but a 5 minute video Smh
Naziha (2 months ago)
matt is the best
Rino Pandu Wicaksono (2 months ago)
Usually when I speed up a video to 2x I can't catch up to what they're saying, but in this video he was talking so pleasantly that I could
Cool - Agario & More (2 months ago)
“So lemme ask you this............” “...” “What’s your name?”
Ted Godfrey (3 months ago)
what the fuck do I do about the other 10 - 50 minutes of the conversation
Lord Mock (3 months ago)
Me: "So... let me ask you this" Them: "Ask me what" Me: "Ask who what"? Them: "what did you want to ask" Me: "what did who want to ask"
Daniel Kahn (3 months ago)
It’s amazing how you can be an expert these days without the required qualifications and / or experience. Apparently you can just take a course on coaching and selling to naive people and then just take advantage of them
Marsellus Wallace (3 months ago)
I hate people like this Not because I’m jealous Because they’re cheesy goofballs
pwnage122334 (3 months ago)
it also helps to have a british accent. just sayin
GOLDEN ANGEL (3 months ago)
Thank you for your brother PDF behind the curtain the 1st 5 mins Matthew Hussey, 😘😘😘☕️☕️😘
Saquib Miah (3 months ago)
https://tinyurl.com/yblbcrru BEST WAY TO GET INTO A MAN HEAD
Lucy Lux (3 months ago)
Try to become interested in the person. Genuinely. And be present. That's it.
Anonymous (3 months ago)
Pewdiepie is that u?
My name is JEFF (3 months ago)
Hello Goodbye ... So, what do i do now?
giulianosassari (3 months ago)
So tim... how big is your dick?
cream (3 months ago)
We don't need any more extrovert conversation tips, we need more "how to nail your awkward conversations!" videos.
fahim toufiqul islam (3 months ago)
Step 1. Look as good as him
Yojax (4 months ago)
Click bait? Can any vouch for this guy?
Jazz P (4 months ago)
But this video is 5mins tho
vladimir ikic (4 months ago)
Try being a little man. No one is interrested.
vladimir ikic (4 months ago)
+Overlord Hes not a scam. Hes just handsome. Id rather be confident trying out a ugly mans tactic to be honest haha
Overlord (4 months ago)
Yeah. Its looks,looks and looks. This guy is a scam artist.
theboard 1 (4 months ago)
it'd be great if you did a get the girl series
Nicolas Gabriel (4 months ago)
#content
Dee K (4 months ago)
Him: I’m an accountant Me: Okay so let me ask you this... <pause for suspense> Uuuhh so.. you like.. stuff? 😩
Montash Alvin (4 months ago)
Hi ladies. I am the only male here. 😍
House (4 months ago)
stopped at 6 seconds. why dint u try the 5 second thing for this video?
Junior Farias (4 months ago)
Dont feel comfortable watching this video
The Truth Supporter (4 months ago)
Dude I like you style sense.
Rippster (4 months ago)
the first thing you gotta have is that sexy accent and the rest is down the hill
lyn quen (4 months ago)
I rock at making other people the experts...Because I suck at everything 😎👉
Georg Müller (4 months ago)
these arent flirt tips - this is just being polite imo
CRUSTYDOGTAINT (4 months ago)
Step 1: have someone to talk to):
Beverly Ensoy (4 months ago)
Is it just me or you really look like a blonde british version of Brendon Urie???
K P (4 months ago)
It can't be sort-of and illusive... It's one or the other and you sir are manipulative. Confidence is a good onversationalist. You could just ask a question and then listen.
Motaz Taamneh (4 months ago)
0:05 I DONT WANT YOU
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Agent 47 (4 months ago)
When you said we don't need to give a penny for it. I went all out with full potential for download
NoOne NoOneAtAll (4 months ago)
Women don't need dating advice!!! They just have to be more rational that's all
Gabriel Waggoner (4 months ago)
Matthew mconaghy?🤣
Nick Mirabi (4 months ago)
This is fuckn amazing
Selena Delrosario (5 months ago)
Walang kwenta.
N JDB (5 months ago)
5:02
N JDB (5 months ago)
Rom
》Tilly 《 (5 months ago)
I tried the 'tim' one with my friends' boyfriend. Turns out he didn't like it or something, and was very curious what she had told me about him. The two of them ended up having some pretty awkward conversations, and my friend wasn't happy about it. Thanks a lot.
Ordeal Arin (5 months ago)
Ya its true u make me to subscribe!! But its looks silly to act like u know Everything!! Hahaha just joking.
Thomas Postma (5 months ago)
watched for 5 seconds and u lost me, fukin clicbait
Magesh M (5 months ago)
hi pewdiepie
Jean Hermans (5 months ago)
It REALLY helps to have a british accent too btw
SURFRUNNER D (5 months ago)
If you can win someone over in only 5 seconds why is this video over 5 minutes long? I stopped it in 10 seconds because I had not been won over
Neut (5 months ago)
well, if i had your looks i wouldn't be watching this video
kunal dhadse (5 months ago)
its Subconsciously not Unconsciously.
Hitthatshit (5 months ago)
If someone asked me what I did and then said "so let me ask you this" with the body language he has. I'd instantly think what's this cocky prick about to say.
Xenoni (5 months ago)
I have a coworker who everytime says "lemme ask you this" I want to punch him in the face.
Glokib (5 months ago)
why do you sound exactly like and look slightly like Darrenn Brown??

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